Porn is not all bad

Have you ever tried watching BDSM videos? Wikipedia.org defines BDSM as “bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.” For laymen, you can call it extreme porn. This is the where you see men and women tied and forced into doing something. And oh, if you’re wondering, yes, studies show that a lot of people like exhibitionism.

In a study conducted by Kath Albury and Catharine Lumby of the University of Sydney found out there is a variety of people who buys porn movies – men and women, married, married and single individuals, they live in cities and in the country and are atheists, Buddhists and Anglicans. As a matter of fact, almost all types of people like purchasing adult material. So what then of the public debates and discussions for and against pornography?

So many researches have tried defining what pornography with some people trying to put a distinction between erotica and pornography. Academicians, lawyers, women and even the church, all have tried defining it and specifying its characteristics and all have failed to provide a satisfactory answer. Some say pornography is violent and immoral while the Webster dictionary defines it “the depiction of erotic behavior intended to cause sexual excitement”.

The Kama Sutra contains illustrations which can me considered as astonishing for conventional couples. It is also considered as the basis for BDSM. Sex is the most basic of all necessities. Some people might argue that it is too much for private viewing. That it is too cinematic. But the truth is, a lot of people like the feeling of being forced. Yes the irony of it. People like not being in control all the time. Perhaps that’s why people get hooked with porn – because it allows them to explore a different universe that our modern society would not.

Have you ever tried to chat to a sexy woman live? Do you like looking at sexy babes on web cam? It doesn’t matter whether you are male or female. That’s what’s great with pornography, it features live adult cam and you don’t need to go running to hide your face. This is perhaps the most open-minded forum where natural is emphasized. Have you ever seen women appearing in porn with unnatural breasts? How does it make you feel? Yes, people gets aroused by the real thing, so it doesn’t matter if you have small boobs as long as you have the real deal.

Despite the many press releases regarding the spread of pornography, it was found that people who like porn movies don’t usually use often, not for sexual excitement and sexual gratification. Sure it feels good to be in a state of a sexual excitement but people say that they use it to feel better – to be distracted from work, or to fight against depression.